Blended Family Weddings

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Wedding events are a moment of hope and laughter, the joining of lives and hearts, aspirations, dreams, and goals. They’re an occasion of the joy that has been found between two people, and the pledge of devotion they are taking as they moving ahead in a new life together. If it isn’t a first matrimony, and there are children included, there are additional factors that need to be taken into account and acknowledged as part of the process. And while it is a beautiful, happy thing, it also has some hurdles as it incorporates a lot of change for multiple people.

Here are some things to keep in mind as the big day approaches if you’re moving ahead into a blended family situation. (They’re likely thoughts that are readily bouncing around in your head as you’re trying to wrap your mind around the whole experience.).

For starters, there are so many emotions involved in this union, and so many hearts, too, making it a really sensitive thing. Some of the children may be excited and see this as a great thing, and others might be struggling with sadness or apprehension. And in order for those things to be processed, they have to be addressed.

Along with the previous point, it’s important to help orient your children for the upcoming change. They might regret about what the adjustment will actually resemble, or feel sensitive about a stepparent serving as a parent. They might resent that or seem like they’re forced to feel a certain way. They might worry that they’re shedding you to somebody else, and worry about what that will look like, how they’ll fit in. These are all valid concerns, and it’s a good idea to analyze how your kids are doing throughout the whole process. If you know how they’re truly responding to what is happening, you’ll know the best ways to address their concerns and comfort them that they are still a top concern and that they’re not going to lose you in the process.

In the months leading up to the big day, it’s a good idea to do things together as a new blended family unit to create opportunities for important bonding to take place. You can’t be forceful or pushy with this one, but when the time is right, and in ways that are gentle and unobtrusive, time together is an important thing so relationships can start to form and eventually solidify.

In conclusion, include the kids in the process. They’ll feel more like they are an important part of what is happening if they can help with wedding stuff and be incorporated. Definitely there will be things that you’ll feel firmly about, but there are tons of choices that they can weigh in on.
If you’re getting married, you’re staking for the long haul, and you may as well get used to that family feeling now.

Two people integrating is an event that calls for celebration. If you’re planning a wedding, you’re likely trying to identify a myriad of particulars and how to bring every little thing together just so. Among the issues you have to take care of is the transportation for all of the events. Call us if you’re looking for a way to keep the wedding party together! If you need to have a shuttle because of limited parking, we’re the option you’re looking for! We’d love to help with that if that’s one way we can remove some extra stress from off your plate. Call us today!

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