Over the years of moving youth athletes on our coaches we have collaborated with some of the very best our area has to offer. We have seen great coaches and empowering parents. We have additionally seen the less great coaches and parents who have forced a bit too hard. Listed here are some concepts we have seen taken from the best of the best.
1. Have realistic expectations. Not every child is a natural born athlete and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that! Children know at different speeds, so while one player might “get it” promptly another player is going to need a couple more procedures under their belt before they apprehend a certain skill. It’s vital that sports parents set up realistic expectations for their youth athletes and celebrate the little victories. Maybe your basketball player won’t make everyone of their free throws during a game, it doesn’t matter how much they practice at home, but they perform the perfect pick during another play. Celebrate what they get right and keep in mind that youth sports is a journey! Your child might not go pro one day but that doesn’t mean they can’t have a blast playing with their friends right now.
2. Create a “sports free” time at home. It’s important making sure sports do not overshadow the rest of their life. Everybody needs a break from youth sports once in a while, especially after a loss. Make the determination to yourself and your youth athlete that there will always be a “sports free” time at home where they won’t need to relive every play from the previous game. A little breathing space can help clear their head and enable them to bounce back from a loss.
3. Don’t coach from the sidelines. It’s significant that sports parents remember that they are fans, not the coaches. Your job is to inspire and support your player (and their teammates) not coach from the sidelines. Not only makes it happen undermine the authority of their coach, it effectively puts your athlete is an unpleasant situation. Who are they supposed to hear? Are you going to be upset if they pay attention to their coach over you?
4. Watch what you say. It’s so vital for youth athletes to know their parents love them and are proud of them regardless of the score in the end of the day. If you only compliment them when their team wins and nitpick over their errors (going back to the need for realistic expectations), your child might begin to believe that they only way they can make you proud is to be best. At the end of the day youth sports is just a game, not life or death. You want them to have fun, make friends and build self-confidence.